Thursday, April 01, 2021

TAMIL MARRIAGE IN MANIPUR- PART 2

The epitaphs for humans are written once they have left the planet Earth. Many stitch careful imaginations into realities thus etching a place for them in the history. Every time that I come to Indo- Myanmar town named Moreh in Manipur, I think about all those early settlers and visitors who stepped here. What must have been going in their minds when they took the hilly roads in vehicles that moved at snail's speed. The last post of India and settling down to carve out a life here must have been a task in itself. Generations after generations have grown here, lived here and adapted to ever changing political-economic scenarios. Strife, moving demographics and ever evolving trade have been the only constants apart from the bumps of roads dusty at many places.

Hearing a person who has left the town decades ago and now returned to partake in festivities is an experience. Their eyes swell as they recall days of the yore and acknowledge that however tough, the life was good in this small town. Their reminiscences kindle imaginations of the land, its people and who all traversed its lanes. The tony guitarist strums his strings and belts out a number in the name of God. His voice rips through the playful sounds of young children, even as the dogs of adjacent homes dare each other. The miniature sparrows with blue beaks come flying by to take short breaks on the tall Christmas Tree in the backyard. The Sun is setting and the badminton players illuminate their arena to begin the game stretching into late night hours. The body clocks are settled well now that the continuous supply of electricity and mobile data has penetrated the region.

The visit to the town was also to see the recently opened cafe by my extended family. It is called Love Byte Cake & Cafe. Do not forget to note the spelling of *Byte*, an important one in today's data hungry World! The efforts of my energetic Sister-in-Law and her 3 young children are bearing fruits. She makes delicacies which were far from this mofussil town trying to emerge out of a Kasbah. Her cakes, pastries, pizzas, burgers, shakes and Burmese delicacies are well sought in the town and lit up the wedding festivities. The 4 layered tall cake was a hit as it just disappeared after the groom cut it with his bride. The arena is changing at some pace here. Innovative creations find connoisseurs in every part of the World.

Children have started going to school. I ask them why no masks and the reply is no one wears them! Someone has to wear first and each one looks at the other one!! The lip balms hold priority over masks is the conclusion!! 

I set off early morning of 14 Mar 2021 to fall back to Imphal via Asian Highway-1. The road is coming up well and I am hopeful that next visit would be a faster drive. Crossing the posts of various CAPF forces is a pleasure in itself with quick tea meetings with the Sentinels of the North-East. The young and dynamic Officers fill my chest with pride as I reminisce about my days in Uniform. Welcoming a Veteran gives utmost satisfaction to both the serving and the retired. The legacy is definitely in safe hands.

The time to the Airport check-in gets closer but not before a great friend now settled in Imphal comes to meet me at the Airport with his entire family. Ayam knows me over our multiple phone conversations but we have never met in person. He makes a big impression on my heart by coming with his family for those short 5 minutes. These are valuable human jewel moments. I do not click a photo even as my heart wants one because I want to honor him at his home and take the coveted snap. What a surreal experience and I am happy to see the happy family safely settled in Imphal even as the dastardly pandemic continues to sweep through the World. There are 3 wonderful families who left Delhi even as if they foresaw the pandemic and fell back to Manipur to be with their roots. What an amazing grace of God and I saw smiling faces.

As I hug my near and dear ones, a lump build up in my heart but I am again rejuvenated to scale ahead. Maybe there is more of my life to come back again and again to spend time with wonderful folks who still give you unconditional attention and care. 

The Airport Team at Imphal is quick and swiftly clears the volume of passengers as three flights are ready for take off. I see some familiar faces at the Airport and yet another conversation begins. A gentle conversation is the best elixir for humans.

We are cruising at 30,000 feet plus in an Airbus even as I write this travelogue piece. Somehow, this height is perfect fit as outside temperatures plummet to minus while inside it is a comfortable 25 degrees. 

My luggage carries delicacies from Manipur. Dry fish as gift from an Uncle and various kinds of raw material from my Brother-in-Law would definitely cheer my best half back at home. The lip smacking taste is definitely going to continue for some months till we replenish.

When my epitaph is written, amazing Moreh would definitely find its place. After all, Moreh does mean resting place!


TAMIL MARRIAGE IN MANIPUR- PART 1

09 Mar 2021 marked the day of stepping back inside the Delhi's T-3 Airport. A quick check-in and settling of excess luggage was done. Walking through the spaced out queue one could see that the Mask wearing still needs to be promulgated. Mask under the nose and loose masks can be the failure of the first line of defence. We must honor correct donning of masks and of appropriate quality. It seems that some masks are now made to be worn under the nose or that the ear loops just give up as they punish the ears each day with their grip. Friends is it are the loops and the ears? 

The renovated Amex Lounge was ready to be the perfect host. I settled down to fill the stomach and read the morning newsprint. Aircraft landing and take offs presented a delightful sight to the eyes. 

The visit to Manipur this time was to attend a wedding. Traditionally it is the groom's family which traverses the geographical divide to complete the rituals of life's new start. 26 years ago, I should have travelled to marry my best half at Manipur but we made the opposite request. This time around the groom again made the request and the bride's family came down to marry in Manipur. Well, I had an invite from the groom's side and carrying traditional wedding dresses for family members, I boarded the Air India flight to Manipur's capital Imphal. 

The take off was right on time even as the face shield vanished from almost every face soon as the aircraft climbed. The tail winds hit the aircraft well and arrival at Imphal was 30 minutes ahead of schedule!! The view of Himalayas was soothing to the eyes and the cloud cover on top of Imphal did flutter the landing. 

Driving on Asian Highway-1 is an unique experience. I have seen this road for last 27 years and this time it does seem like a highway. The road is smooth in most drive section and its scenery is amazing as always. We stopped at a dirt track going up the hill. This track became visible this time when the road was being made and is a World War-2 track used to travel to Imphal. Historic, as I stood on its edge, I imagined how many would have used that road to reach a place called Pallel which incidentally also has an abandoned WW2 Air Strip. Operating aircrafts during those years must have been a great human challenge. The pilots in every sphere of life and of course of air planes deserve applauses. 

Day-1 and I reached Moreh. A banana from Bongyang Village actually tasted well. These bananas are not put in chemicals and taste not so sweet. My luggage distributed to happy faces, I retired for the night skipping any further calories- liquid or solid!! 

Finding the sweet spot in a new pillow is always a game which keeps humans tossed up in new beds. This bed, though not new to me, but settles with my body after a few hours of accepting each other. I had slipped into a delirium when sounds of gun fire woke me up again. 30 odd rounds were fired over an hour and kept piercing the night inching towards an early sun rise of North-East. 

It was business as usual for the city folks as we entered the early morning wedding at the Tamil Temple. Happy faces of all hues, playful children and breathing a while without a Mask. As the wedding progressed, we ate a delightful breakfast of Uthappam, Idli, Pongal, Coconut Chutney, Sambhar and topped it up with Halwa. Meeting people after decades is enjoyable experience as time does its work as a beautician. All are keen to know about the family and place of stay. Same questions are asked everywhere and one has to be very precise to give same answers lest confusion rules. Someday, we would have a pocket Alexa which would give similar answers! 

It is 5pm of Day-2 and the Sun has moved on towards its westerly stroll. There is another event which is inching closer as first of the stars comes out. As the music belts out, juniors will raise the dust from Mother Earth and seniors will sit in a separate lawn reminiscent of their times when not so much dust was kicked up! Dust is the real story of Human Life. It is said that Marriages are made in heaven but the life is lived on the Mother Earth with choices of kicking the dust or careful steps to avoid kicking of dust! 

Till the pattern of life is decided by the newly weds, it is time for us to bless them and enjoy the happiness of human connects.