Friday, September 05, 2014

GURU DAKSHINA



The late noon Sun was its zenith. We were toddlers in a “Start-up” school at the sleepy little town called Rohtak. I and my classmates Satyapal and Rakesh Vig held our hand together as the classes got over and walked 500 metres to the main road to catch the rickshaw of Gopi. Gopi would wait near the main road to pick us up after the school as he had other children from different schools too along with him. A small canal ran along the main road and also there was an old well under the shade of a Peepal tree. Gopi had not yet arrived when we reached the assembly point. There was no soul on the deserted road as the mighty Sun blazed away to glory. Three of us were curious to see the well for many days and now were alone. We went near the well and looked inside- our cheerful faces reflected on its water holding. Playful as we were, we picked a few pebbles and created waves inside the well. Soon, the size of stones got bigger and Gopi was nowhere in sight. We dropped a big brick inside the well, it created a big wave and it hit the walls back and forth. The wave settled down and we saw the reflection of three of us being joined with our teacher Mrs Keswani. A pleasant personality, Mrs Keswani was an ex-Air Hostess of KLM and had settled down into Rohtak after her marriage to a leading Doctor of Rohtak Medical College. She held our small hands, cleaned the dust and calmly explained us about the dangers that the well posed to three of us. The well looked so docile but yet it could have led us to a fatal result. She waited with us till Gopi arrived and sent us back to safety of our homes and waiting mothers.

The Start-up School did not hold us for long. The next year, me and Satyapal moved to a bigger school called Mahendra Kinder Garten which had classes till VIth. We were happy that Mrs Keswani moved with us too. In the new school, we joined the class of Miss Taru Gupta. She was a bubbly, young girl just out of her College at Rohtak. In the days of the peak hippy culture, she would be smartly dressed in trendy faded hippy denims and would teach us all the subjects. Neither the teacher nor the students ever felt fatigued. She not only groomed us in studies, but also groomed our personalities. I still wear the same hair style that she carved out for me in 1977!! There were no PTMs as she would meet our parents every now and then and help them to understand our growth patterns. We were so fortunate that she took us right from the Prep School till Class VIth. She brought out our talents to the fore and I had the honour to lead the School’s dramatics team under her tutelage. It was great excitement as I would present the School’s credentials to the Chief Guest during the School’s Annual Function.

With a heavy heart and tears in our eyes, me and Satyapal bade farewell to our middle school and joined the VIIth class in Model School, Rohtak. Miss Taru Gupta wished us all the success and continued to monitor our progress as we kept meeting her every now and then. Model School was a big school. Each class had 03 sections and the competition was large. Coming from a smaller school, we were outsiders as compared to the older students. We had to carve out our places in the new school. The hard work of studies started getting noticed and during the Annual Day selections, I was picked up for a small role in the famed English play enacted only by our School in the entire district. The English plays used to attract large audience especially from the University and Medical College which were Rohtak’s attractions. The role was that of a servant of a rich lady. The play began on a right note but halfway through the play, the lead actress forgot her lines as I made my scheduled entry to remove the tea cups!! The curtains were drawn as audience kept rapt silence. Backstage, the play director gave a dressing down. The lead actress, a Class XIIth student pointed an accusing finger towards me, a VIIth class student for forgetting her lines!! The play director, a lady teacher, slapped me hard without investigating the matter. The Assistant Play Director, Mr Ishwar Singh Varma, was watching the whole incident unfolding. He held me tight and wiped my tears away. He took me under his wings from then on.

Next year, Mr Ishwar Singh Varma became the play director as the previous year’s failure was still fresh in the minds of the School’s management committee. Mr Ishwar Singh gave me the lead role of a 70 year old widower who manages to marry a young girl whom his son also likes!! It was a challenging and demanding role and a central character for a Class VIIth boy. The play went like a song and we re-enacted the play for 02 more occasions. Mr Ishwar Singh Varma always kept his hawk eyes on us as we grew in the School. He would always counsel us and keep our focus on the righteous path. His admonishments were never to break our growth pattern, but he would guide us always to meet the looming challenges on the horizon. His famous lines on my report card were,” Intelligence is only 1%, 99% is the preparation.” He silently and effectively nurtured our energies and helped all my classmates to transit from School to meaningful institutions. We last met him at his house, when Satyapal, Vivek Chugh and me went across to present him a Tie as a mark of our eternal respect to the man. Satyapal and I were already in the NDA and Vivek was heading towards his MBA in the Kurukshetra University.

As I moved ahead into my life, my association with Teachers has continued to grow deeper and deeper. All my teachers have influenced my destiny with their actions and thoughts. They have set forth the challenges and helped me to achieve my aims. In each role of life, a teacher emerges. The first machinery round on a mammoth Air Craft Carrier with a senior Lieutenant of the Electrical Department or the first Dive under the careful watch of the Executive Officer of the Submarine could not have been enjoyable had the Teacher inside them not emerged out. They held my hands as I went through the challenges of meeting the ultimate operational tasks of the Indian Navy.

The creative angles rest inside each of us. Teachers emerged here also and nudged the writer inside me out into the open. My writing bug was kindled by Wing Commander Unni Kartha (popularly known as Cyclic in Blog circles) and Colonel KL Vishwanathan (or Kelly). Both these gentlemen are my Squadron Seniors from the Foxtrot Squadron of the National Defence Academy. Their writings stirred my Hornets Nest and keep me going on.

The latest teacher who has made a difference into my life is Brigadier Rajiv Divekar, the present Director of Symbiosis Institute of Management Sciences. He has guided my latest thesis which I am submitting for my MBA degree. The process has been smooth and the final prints are ready for submission.

We begin our lives with friends and teachers. They are the witnesses as our lives get shaped, moulded and transforming into new avatars. They are never away from us and keep waiting for us to come back to them to seek our solaces. Can we ever pay them back for what these individuals did for us? As times have changed at a fast pace, we are witnessing a more student-teacher disconnect than the connect that should have been achieved by all the modern gadgets at our disposal. A course is getting over again in my life and I am moving on. A new teacher is emerging in my life again. This time, he is oceans away into a University in the US. He is my virtual teacher and will start teaching me the nuances of Business Finance using Digital Tools through a MOOC. I am not alone in this World with my Teachers and friends all around me. All it needs is to take a break and connect with these wonderful human beings again to regain the bliss of humanity.     

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